Because so many people going through divorce are under financial stress, they often think about the possibility of bankruptcy as a way to get control of everything. If you're thinking about bankruptcy, or more importantly, if your spouse is thinking about it, you're smart to pay attention to this information, because the way you word your divorce settlement can have a lot to do with how the bankruptcy affects your divorce, and vice versa.

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The first and perhaps most important consequence of a person's filing for bankruptcy is the automatic stay. When you or your spouse files for bankruptcy, the automatic stay kicks in to stop all efforts to enforce the collection of debt. It is the exceptions to the automatic stay that are important in divorce.

Obligations from a divorce to pay support are not dischargeable in bankruptcy. This includes payments to support a former spouse or minor children. The support obligations that are non-dischargeable include child support, alimony or spousal support, and lawyer's fees from a divorce or to modify support.

A person (in bankruptcy terms, the "debtor") can file bankruptcy and can complete the bankruptcy process even while owing support. It's just that when the case is finished, the debtor will owe the support obligation with no change.

If an obligation from divorce is in the nature of property settlement, whether it gets discharged is a good bit less certain. They're presumed to be non-dischargeable, but the debtor may be able to overcome the presumption and have them discharged. Overcoming the presumption requires a showing that the debtor cannot pay the debt and still take care of himself, his dependents, and his business, or that discharging the debt would result in a benefit to the debtor that outweighs the harm that would be caused to the former spouse or child by non-payment.

If your spouse owes obligations to you after divorce, and if there appears to be a good chance the spouse will file bankruptcy.What you need to do is to characterize as much of the obligation as possible in ways that makes it clear that it's intended for support, not property settlement. Note that the bankruptcy court will not be bound by what you call the obligation, but if you clearly call it support and it behaves like support, there's a good likelihood the court will find it to be support and will not allow discharge. If there's no question that a portion of the obligation due to you is property settlement, though, no amount of verbal window-dressing will change it.

What you want to do is take a lien on one or more assets of value - preferably assets that are important to your spouse. Then if your spouse proposes later in bankruptcy to have the debt discharged, you can seize the property to pay the debt. It's messy, and you may get far less from the property than it's worth, but depending on how much equity the debtor has, the leverage of the lien should help to get the debtor's attention in bankruptcy.

One last thing: if both of you are thinking about bankruptcy, you may want to file before you get your divorce. That way, you'll know when you divorce which obligations will be discharged, and you can each negotiate with full knowledge.

In addition, filing before divorce will save you some money, because you'll pay for only one bankruptcy filing instead of two, and your divorce will be a good bit less complicated.

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